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How to Help An Au Pair Make Friends

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发表于 2010-11-29 12:47:24 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
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I am concerned about au pairs in small communities where there is little or no public transportation and perhaps little or no off-duty access to a host family car. EVERY human being needs social outlets.
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Here are some ideas I tried with my own, shy au pair. Most of my ideas did NOT work, but my au pair appreciated that I tried -- and eventually we found one (volunteering) that did work. Needless to say, your ideas and experiences are welcome. . l# X8 ]% Z8 A; P/ e* ^) _

0 x2 n( ~5 j4 {0 C! x" @9 T  F- Host an "au pair" pizza night, pot luck dinner, pool party, treasure hunt, scrabble game, movie night, etc. at your home for the au pairs in your LCC group.
6 m, C4 B8 g/ Q, B( p- Invite local au pairs to your home for dinner, one at a time. Go straight through the LCC list of au pairs, and see if one "hits it off" with your au pair.
$ X) q6 @9 i; {; ^( P- T- Help your au pair investigate local resources (libraries, book discussion groups, colleges, theater groups, book clubs, garden clubs, cooking classes, art classes (see craft stores), Adult Ed classes, town recreation/sports, etc.), put her events on the calendar and make sure she has transportation to the meetings.
4 ~1 I* N% D) h8 s& n9 A- H- Encourage your au pair to explore a class in a hobby (music, cooking, art, dance, etc.) 1 O) F6 d( G6 r# d
- Help your au pair investigate local tourist resources " k* S: i0 \3 O2 L( K/ _
- Help your au pair investigate local volunteer opportunities : K, ^  [: m" {+ ?4 O
- Let your au pair invite a same-sex au pair for a sleepover
. X2 ~5 B; y' E5 z3 T  P- If there is no car for AP use, can there be a bicycle?
( X- Y6 c* [$ S9 O. W9 O" c- Help your au pair volulnteer for language exchange with the local high school ' B( S& W9 J) Q# u
- ASK your au pair if she has plans for the weekend. If she consistently does not, this is a cause for concern.
5 a+ }4 n0 D2 b- If your AP has no plans for the weekend, see if you can drop her at a local mall, park, shopping, library, or whatever for a few hours.
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发表于 2010-11-29 13:08:32 | 显示全部楼层
good tips~I'm going to try some~
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发表于 2010-11-29 13:17:27 | 显示全部楼层
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哎呀
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我以后每天的贡献点都奉献给你~我俩就这么互相揩油,揩穷黑鱼!  发表于 2010-11-29 13:25
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 楼主| 发表于 2010-11-29 13:21:33 | 显示全部楼层
回复 cheryl2677 的帖子
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 楼主| 发表于 2010-11-29 17:17:59 | 显示全部楼层
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