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How to Help An Au Pair Make Friends

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发表于 2010-11-29 12:47:24 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
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I am concerned about au pairs in small communities where there is little or no public transportation and perhaps little or no off-duty access to a host family car. EVERY human being needs social outlets.
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Here are some ideas I tried with my own, shy au pair. Most of my ideas did NOT work, but my au pair appreciated that I tried -- and eventually we found one (volunteering) that did work. Needless to say, your ideas and experiences are welcome.
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- Host an "au pair" pizza night, pot luck dinner, pool party, treasure hunt, scrabble game, movie night, etc. at your home for the au pairs in your LCC group.
7 \% G5 S8 Z( {$ ^5 R. X- Invite local au pairs to your home for dinner, one at a time. Go straight through the LCC list of au pairs, and see if one "hits it off" with your au pair.
# M$ w8 T8 R* a: v- Help your au pair investigate local resources (libraries, book discussion groups, colleges, theater groups, book clubs, garden clubs, cooking classes, art classes (see craft stores), Adult Ed classes, town recreation/sports, etc.), put her events on the calendar and make sure she has transportation to the meetings. ' _, @) a& x9 I
- Encourage your au pair to explore a class in a hobby (music, cooking, art, dance, etc.) * q2 ~5 o1 A- }# N  }0 e& x4 z* T
- Help your au pair investigate local tourist resources # L) Y& e7 ^9 C
- Help your au pair investigate local volunteer opportunities
& c: ?% o/ P  x& K- c. l- Let your au pair invite a same-sex au pair for a sleepover
# ~' H& D% n5 o/ p& h9 }- If there is no car for AP use, can there be a bicycle?
9 \' y. K& O( d4 g- Help your au pair volulnteer for language exchange with the local high school
2 P9 `$ u6 J! W  L, E  K- ASK your au pair if she has plans for the weekend. If she consistently does not, this is a cause for concern. 4 b& L( _9 ~  s# E$ g. N! M
- If your AP has no plans for the weekend, see if you can drop her at a local mall, park, shopping, library, or whatever for a few hours.
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发表于 2010-11-29 13:08:32 | 显示全部楼层
good tips~I'm going to try some~
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发表于 2010-11-29 13:17:27 | 显示全部楼层
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哎呀
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我以后每天的贡献点都奉献给你~我俩就这么互相揩油,揩穷黑鱼!  发表于 2010-11-29 13:25
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 楼主| 发表于 2010-11-29 13:21:33 | 显示全部楼层
回复 cheryl2677 的帖子
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 楼主| 发表于 2010-11-29 17:17:59 | 显示全部楼层
回复 Chelsea晨 的帖子
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