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How to Help An Au Pair Make Friends

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发表于 2010-11-29 12:47:24 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
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I am concerned about au pairs in small communities where there is little or no public transportation and perhaps little or no off-duty access to a host family car. EVERY human being needs social outlets. 0 h3 x5 D" w" U. y. C
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Here are some ideas I tried with my own, shy au pair. Most of my ideas did NOT work, but my au pair appreciated that I tried -- and eventually we found one (volunteering) that did work. Needless to say, your ideas and experiences are welcome. . f8 h& P" o. U8 N* y

! X8 P# u- z$ y' h0 ?8 B- k- Host an "au pair" pizza night, pot luck dinner, pool party, treasure hunt, scrabble game, movie night, etc. at your home for the au pairs in your LCC group. - q2 \6 W- b, K2 h* p- @
- Invite local au pairs to your home for dinner, one at a time. Go straight through the LCC list of au pairs, and see if one "hits it off" with your au pair.
, A. e5 H6 P$ G: j: a% d- Help your au pair investigate local resources (libraries, book discussion groups, colleges, theater groups, book clubs, garden clubs, cooking classes, art classes (see craft stores), Adult Ed classes, town recreation/sports, etc.), put her events on the calendar and make sure she has transportation to the meetings.
. `# {* G6 }8 X& @- Encourage your au pair to explore a class in a hobby (music, cooking, art, dance, etc.) : n. [5 W; V$ p$ V: _
- Help your au pair investigate local tourist resources
. V: G$ s7 `7 Y9 J( J6 f$ |, f. b+ y- Help your au pair investigate local volunteer opportunities
+ y; d0 i" t  Q- p9 R6 a7 m- Let your au pair invite a same-sex au pair for a sleepover
) e$ d5 i' }8 {# a- If there is no car for AP use, can there be a bicycle? " N+ d7 u* }4 q1 M
- Help your au pair volulnteer for language exchange with the local high school - R4 B9 t$ y: c, N7 t2 i: S: p
- ASK your au pair if she has plans for the weekend. If she consistently does not, this is a cause for concern. 8 w3 X$ E: W2 n% q
- If your AP has no plans for the weekend, see if you can drop her at a local mall, park, shopping, library, or whatever for a few hours. / W3 \8 Z1 `7 w7 g* T/ u. h
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发表于 2010-11-29 13:08:32 | 显示全部楼层
good tips~I'm going to try some~
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发表于 2010-11-29 13:17:27 | 显示全部楼层
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我以后每天的贡献点都奉献给你~我俩就这么互相揩油,揩穷黑鱼!  发表于 2010-11-29 13:25
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 楼主| 发表于 2010-11-29 13:21:33 | 显示全部楼层
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 楼主| 发表于 2010-11-29 17:17:59 | 显示全部楼层
回复 Chelsea晨 的帖子
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